Tuesday, September 21, 2021

Stop Doubting People, Start Trusting Them

Stop Doubting People, Start Trusting Them

Few of us have a subtle habit of doubting people in our relationships. Sometimes our doubts about someone are more to do with our habit and less to do with them. Our unhealthy doubts, insecurities, fears and anxieties will not only push away our peace, but also will push that person away from us.

1. Do you naturally feel like trusting someone and be able to believe them always? Yet, do you find one reason or the other to doubt their intention, ability or capacity? Have you sensed how that element of doubt shakes the very foundation of your relationship?

2. Any relationship is built on trust. Sometimes we claim to trust a person but we have our own doubts. This energy suffocates the bond we share as the energy of suspicion blocks the mutual respect, acceptance and love from flowing.

3. People carry different personalities and different behaviors, so they cannot always be our way. But our trust should be independent of what people do or how they behave. Even if they are wrong, let us trust them unconditionally because it empowers them to do things right. 

4. Send a powerful message to yourself and to people, that you trust them completely. Remind yourself – Trust is my innate nature. Trusting everyone makes me comfortable and makes people trustworthy.


Message for the day

The breath of a true life is enthusiasm.

Expression: To live life, to live each moment with enthusiasm is to really live life. The quality of life, the quality of the work done, the quality of relationships, everything is enriched through enthusiasm. Where there is enthusiasm there is maximum recognition and usage of everything available. Enthusiasm spreads to others too, gives them the courage to do their best and enrich their lives.

Experience: When I am enthusiastic, I am able to enjoy everything that comes my way. The biggest obstacle seems like a game for me, and I pass it by easily, without experiencing any difficulty. Confidence builds up in me and gives me the courage to be the best in all I do. I slowly increase my own potential and steadily move on towards success.